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February 18, 2007

Black History Month: Terre Haute native leads one of Navy’s most successful athletic programs

Annapolis, Md. — Paul Harris learned two lessons in one moment.

First, coasting is not an option while wearing a U.S. Naval Academy track-and-field uniform. Second, his coach — Stephen Cooksey — is quite comfortable standing out in a crowd.

Harris got both messages, loud and clear, as he crossed the finish line first in a race that helped Navy defeat archrival Army at West Point on Feb. 3. With a spacious two-second lead, Harris jogged the last few steps of the 500-meter run.

“Everybody was cheering, and he was the only one yelling at me,” Harris recalls, with a grin. “He came over later and said, ‘I just want to make you better.’”

As Harris tells that story, his Midshipmen teammates — dressed identically in light gray “Navy” sweats — flow into Halsey Field House, a half-century-old gym named for Academy legend and World War II hero Adm. William “Bull” Halsey. Their voices echo under its arched, 70-foot-tall roof. In the distance, over Harris’ muscular, 20-year-old shoulder, Cooksey gives his hurdlers pointers on their technique.

“Most of the athletes here understand he cares about you and wants the best out of you,” Harris says.

Few people realize the value of caring more than Cooksey.

Today, the 56-year-old Terre Haute native leads one of Navy’s most successful athletic programs, having won 237 of 268 meets since becoming head coach of the Midshipmen 19 years ago. He’s also an associate professor of physical education there. Cooksey and his wife, Valerie, a financial planner for Smith-Barney, have a home in this historic city, where the white color of spectacular sailboats and sea gulls add contrast to the scenic blue of Chesapeake Bay. The Cookseys live “affluently,” according to his talkative assistant coach, Al Cantello.

Things could have turned out differently.

“I’ve been really lucky,” Cooksey says in an office with walls covered in photos of over-achievers he’s coached. “My whole life has been people looking at me and saying, ‘Hey, we’ll give that person some help.’ And if it wasn’t for that, I would’ve been in trouble. I would’ve had a much rougher life.”

Close-knit family

Cooksey never knew his parents. At the age of “1 or 2,” he was left at the Glenn Home, a now-defunct orphanage in eastern Vigo County. For the next 16 years of his life, that orphanage was Cooksey’s home.

Like other black kids there, he attended the segregated District 3 elementary school in Lost Creek until the desegregation movement of the 1950s put students of all races together in Vigo County. When that happened, Cooksey quickly found a friend in Steve Higham, a fellow second-grader at a school in Seelyville, where Higham’s father, Jim, served as principal.

“He and I became buddies right away,” recalls Steve Higham, a longtime teacher and coach at Terre Haute North Vigo High School. Sometimes, Cooksey would get permission from the Glenn Home to spend weekends with the Highams.

Their friendship — forged between kids of two races in an era when integration faced raw, stubborn objections across America — has lasted nearly 50 years.

Another family, the Reyhers, opened its hearts and home to Cooksey during his junior year at Gerstmeyer High School. He and Mike Reyher were close friends and teammates on the Black Cats’ varsity basketball team. On some weekends when Gerstmeyer had long road trips to Evansville, the Glenn Home allowed Cooksey to stay overnight with the Reyhers, a family of five children whose father, Bill, ran Ace Neon Co. and mother, Lea, worked at Sears. Eventually, they invited Cooksey to move out of the orphanage and live with them.

“He’s been one of us ever since,” says Lea Reyher-Long, who is now 81 and remarried after Bill passed away.

Cooksey quickly made a positive impact on the family.

He taught Kehrt, one of the younger Reyher boys, to high jump. A few years later Kehrt set a school record at Terre Haute North in that event.

Kehrt also remembers Cooksey working a summer job loading trucks at Hulman & Co. just before starting college at Indiana State University, where Stephen became ISU’s first NCAA Division I track and field All-American.

“He’d end the day bone-tired but still had to do his workouts,” Kehrt recalls. “I was always impressed by that.”

Stephen and the Reyhers became a close-knit family, even if some other segments of society weren’t so accepting.

“One of the things that struck me later was what it meant for a black kid to move into an all-white neighborhood,” says Kehrt. “To me, at the time, it was just cool, and I had a special new brother. But I’m sure my parents endured some unpleasant moments.”

Indeed, at one point, they had to switch barbershops so Stephen could get his haircut along with the rest of the family.

“We just said, if he can’t go, then we’ll just change,” Lea says, her voice breaking. “It wasn’t easy, but we made it through.”

Cooksey’s resiliency fit right in with the Reyhers. He never complained about life in the Glenn Home, Lea says. Even now, Cooksey seems grateful to those who cared for him at the orphanage.

“To me, it was just a big group of kids — people that you hung out with, that you grew up with,” he says. “People were coming and going. And there were a whole bunch of us that were there forever.

“If it wasn’t for that, I probably wouldn’t have had a very good life at all,” Cooksey adds. “So there were people that were looking after me and took care of me in that situation.”

Likewise, he views Terre Haute as a place where friendships could be found.

“It made no difference whether you were black or white to a lot of kids that you grew up with. It was just that way,” Cooksey says. “Everybody was more interested in, ‘Can you play sports?’”

‘Be a teacher first’

Cooksey could indeed play sports. After a stellar high school career at Gerstmeyer, he got offers to play basketball at North Carolina State and Oregon, among others. But, inspired by track-and-field legend Bill Welch’s coaching at Gerstmeyer, Cooksey chose a career in that sport at Indiana State under Coach Bill Malloy. By the time he graduated in 1972, Cooksey held school records in the high jump and triple jump.

He’d also made some valuable contacts inside the college coaching ranks. That list included veteran Indiana University Coach Sam Bell, who encouraged Cooksey to pursue coaching. Bell told him, “If you’re going to be a coach, you’ve got to be a teacher first.”

That credo stuck with Cooksey.

In 1974, Cooksey took his first coaching job as an assistant in track and cross country at Ball State. Four years later, when the head coach fell ill, Cooksey took over as interim head coach. The next season, he fully assumed leadership of the cross country and track programs.

Without fanfare, Cooksey had become Ball State’s first black head coach in any sport. But he had no time to ponder racial milestones. Instead, Cooksey had to deal with the university limiting his coaching staff to him and a graduate student assistant.

“My big problem was, they didn’t want to give me another assistant, so you weren’t thinking about those kinds of things,” Cooksey says.

Short-handed, Cooksey’s program struggled. “There were some trying times,” he recalls.

His ability to teach led him toward brighter days, though.

A youngster named Leo Williams, who Cooksey agreed to coach as a high jumper to keep him from hanging around and disrupting the Ball State practices, grew into a prime college prospect as a high-schooler. Cooksey wanted him at Ball State, but one day Williams came to him with a recruiting letter from the U.S. Naval Academy.

“I told him, ‘You know, Leo, Ball State could never give you what the Naval Academy could give you. I mean, this is life-changing. So you really need to think about this,’” Cooksey says now.

Williams took his advice, accepted Navy’s offer and became a world-class athlete at Annapolis. Cooksey and Williams kept in touch, and still do.

Through that connection, Cooksey became acquainted with Cantello, then the Midshipmen’s head coach. Cooksey interviewed to join Cantello as an assistant once, and the coach turned him down. A few years later, Cantello hired Cooksey, with the agreement that within three to four years, Cooksey would replace him as head track-and-field coach. In 1988, that happened.

“All of a sudden someone said, ‘Do you realize you’re the first black head coach in the history of the Naval Academy?’” Cooksey says, remembering the moment.

He delivered a disarming response. “What I said was, ‘Do you realize you’re the first white person to ask me that?’” Cooksey recalls, with a laugh. “And I think he got the message.”

‘He’s the man’

Cooksey sports an amazing .884 winning percentage with the Midshipmen, including victories in 16 of Navy’s last 19 duels with Army. Winning those Army-Navy matchups “is so huge,” explains Navy sports information assistant Jonathan Maggart.

But Cooksey is a prime asset to the academy for reasons beyond the record books, Cantello says. Cantello should know. He’s been at the academy long enough to remember the football team’s last victory over Notre Dame. (It came in 1963, his first year in Annapolis. “We haven’t beat ’em since,” Cantello says.)

Cooksey, he says, “is a gentleman. And that’s in italics.”

Cantello once threw the javelin at world-record distances as an Olympian in 1960, but he doesn’t throw around insincere praise. He tells stories, cracks jokes and shares good-natured ribbing with the Midshipmen, who are nearly 50 years younger than him. He’s spent the last 23 years working alongside Cooksey, after agreeing to serve as the assistant when Cooksey replaced him as head coach.

They’ve weathered occasional disagreements. “We’ve laced ’em up a few times,” Cantello says. “The last thing I am is a rubber stamp.”

That candor makes his respect for Cooksey even more impressive.

“He is a phenomenal coach, a phenomenal Christian and a phenomenal teacher, who doesn’t drink,” Cantello says.

“If you were going to go out on a national hunt to find who displays the kind of image you’d want for this place — the U.S. Naval Academy — he’s the man,” Cantello says, jabbing the cool air of Halsey Field House with his finger, for emphasis.

Back in his office, Cooksey is more comfortable talking about things other than himself — the academy’s plans for a spectacular new indoor track facility, his current team, former athletes who call him often, his family and friends back in Terre Haute, and his wife and their daughter, 28-year-old Brooke Mervine. Reminders of them fill the room.

On top of the TV, is a stone bearing the phrase “never, never quit.”

There’s also a plaque on the wall, quoting former President Calvin Coolidge. It begins, “Nothing in the world can take the place of persistence.”

Lea Reyher-Long sees those qualities in Stephen Cooksey. “He’s a self-made person,” she says proudly.

Yet Cooksey appreciates the people who became his family, his friends, his teachers and his coaches — all who offered help along his path from that orphanage in Terre Haute to the picturesque shores of Chesapeake Bay.

“When you think about not knowing your parents … hey, that’s rough,” he says. “But at the same time, there are a whole bunch of people there to make that road much easier as you’ve traveled it over your life.”

Mark Bennett can be reached at mark.bennett@tribstar.com or (812) 231-4377.

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